The only constant is change, yet why do we constantly seek the constant. A stable life: the home to nest for life, the burden of a 30 year mortgage; a lifelong partner, "the one"; lifelong friends, neglecting the opportunity to connect with others without the expectation of the future, the one career ladder which we spend our whole life climbing, a metaphorical treadmill which we never step off; the one purpose, the one calling. We often hold onto this idea of the constant long after we ought to … [Read more...]